A thought on marriage

I really really believe that in a marriage, the couple should give each other the No. 1 priority, nothing more nothing else. In each and every matter. It's really not about marrying into a family, as so many Indian movies and hindi serials try to prove. Its actually about marrying an individual, someone you love. So no matter what, your partner's happiness should come first, no questions asked. If your partner is putting his family before you for whatever reason, then there is something wrong. I know a lot of people don't agree with me, but I really can't help it. To expect a person to start loving another person's family and putting their needs before their own just because the said person got married is unnatural and just wrong. Yes, it is. A marriage is only about the couple and no one else. Why is it so difficult for so many people to accept it?